What is Sexting? I know what you’re thinking right now!
What is this now? It’s quite simple, actually: Sexting is just another term for dirty talk via chat. I love dirty talks. Nothing turns me on more than naughty conversations, playful dialogues. We text all day long through WhatsApp and Co., so why not incorporate it here as well?
But how do you engage in proper dirty talks?
With this kind of play, a lot can go wrong. Basically, the name says it all: “dirty talks”. But even that requires some skill.
It’s no secret that I’ve had quite a few of these conversations, so I can share some insights and give you some input.
Sometimes, some men who were with me on cam or in chat seem quite helpless. I love my job and, as mentioned, I love dirty talks. Especially via chat, one can really let loose and heat things up. And to be honest, there have been numerous times when a dirty talk with a stranger got me so aroused and horny that my own partner didn’t know what awaited him when I was done with work.
But what should you do?
However, if my counterpart is very unimaginative and doesn’t know what to say or write, it can backfire.
To put it bluntly, here is an example of such a sentence: “Your vagina looks nice.”
Huh? Vagina? Am I in kindergarten, or are we doing dirty talk? When such sentences or similar appear in chat, I’d rather pick up my knitting or my iron and do something around the house on the side. Boring! No wonder some women get cobwebs in front of their “plum” out of boredom and throw away the key. By the way, this also applies to women who don’t know what to do 😉
Seriously, this won’t work!
We want to add some spice to the matter. It’s important to step out of your comfort zone and dive right in. Especially, one should stay focused and not, as in my example, start ironing or knitting because it gets so boring.
I find it more arousing when, for example, someone says: “Hey babe, I dreamt about your hot tits last night, you know what that means for you when you come home?”
That immediately gets my imagination running, and I even have a response ready. Of course, babe, your horny dick will be pampered by my tits.
I could play out this conversation completely, but you have to stimulate your own imagination. But still, let’s continue. Imagine if he had simply written: “Hey babe, I dreamt about you!”
My imagination kicks in here too! OMG, am I in the hospital again, or who was chasing me?! So, I reply: “And babe, what did I do in your dream (again)?”
Honestly, the excitement deflates before anything has even happened.
Just by the way!!!
When we implement dirty talks in real life and are lying in bed with our partner or wherever, we should also take it seriously. I can’t stand it when my partner doesn’t take me seriously during dirty talk. If we are in the middle of a conversation and my partner makes faces or sticks his tongue out at me, it can be a turn-off and ruin the mood for dirty talk.
Never Done Dirty Talk Before
For those who have never had dirty talk with their partner or someone else, you should take it slow. Suppose you’ve been together for a while and have never used phrases like “Fuck me” or “Lick me”, then it sounds a bit unbelievable. Start slowly and don’t pressure yourself. Initially, it’s really enough to start with sentences like
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