Amsterdam. Late evening. In a stylish lounge bar with modern lights and a relaxed vibe, we meet Big_Wess – an imposing figure, a mountain of muscle with charisma that fills the room. With a confident smile and a double espresso in hand, he sits down with us. Today, we talk about the life of a bodybuilder, his experiences with online platforms, and the most bizarre requests from his fans.
ABOUT PERSONALITY AND HOBBIES
– How did your bodybuilding journey begin? What motivated you?
At 16, I was a skinny kid – 79 kg at 2 meters tall. I felt like a walking broomstick. I was tall but had zero muscle. I remember looking at myself in the mirror and thinking, “I need to change.” Then I saw my uncle, a true powerhouse who was into bodybuilding. I admired his physique, his discipline, and his confidence. I knew I wanted to be stronger, not just physically, but mentally as well. So, I started training, lifting weights, eating more, and over the years, I transformed my body. It wasn’t easy – my metabolism was fast, and it took a lot of effort to bulk up. But I stayed consistent, and now here I am – 143,5 kg of pure muscle.
– Who is your biggest inspiration?
My wife. She’s my rock, my biggest supporter. People often think that success in bodybuilding is just about discipline and training, but without the right support system, it’s hard to stay motivated. She’s always there to encourage me, remind me of my goals, and push me to be my best. When you have someone who truly believes in you, it makes all the difference.
– What’s the most important trait that led to your success in both sports and content creation?
No excuses. Most people fail because they give themselves a way out. “I’m too tired,” “I don’t have time,” “It’s too difficult.” Once you eliminate excuses from your vocabulary, you become unstoppable. Success is about discipline, consistency, and pushing through challenges, even when you don’t feel like it. Every time I hit the gym, create content, or push through a tough day, I remind myself why I started in the first place.
– What’s the hardest and most rewarding part of bodybuilding?
The hardest? The never-ending hunger for progress. You always want to be bigger, stronger, better. There’s no “final destination” in bodybuilding – it’s a continuous journey. Some days, it’s exhausting, especially when you hit plateaus or struggle with injuries. But the most rewarding part? Seeing how far I’ve come. That feeling when you push yourself harder than ever, when you break personal records, when you look in the mirror and see the results of your hard work – that’s what keeps me going. Also, the mental benefits – bodybuilding isn’t just about aesthetics; it’s about building discipline, resilience, and mental toughness.
– What do you do when you’re not training? Any surprising hobbies?
I love spending time with my family. I have four kids, and being a dad is one of the most fulfilling roles in my life. People often see me as this huge, intimidating guy, but at home, I’m just “Dad.” I also enjoy watching great TV series – “Peaky Blinders,” “Narcos,” “Breaking Bad” – you name it. People might be surprised, but I love a good drama with intense storytelling.
ABOUT CONTENT AND PLATFORMS
– Why did you decide to monetize content on platforms like F2F and OnlyFans?
I was already active on Instagram, posting fitness content, but the platform had its limitations. People would comment, “Too revealing!” or “This should be on OnlyFans!” So I thought – why not? I was curious to see how I could leverage my physique and turn it into a brand. F2F, in particular, appealed to me because of its features and how easy it is to connect with fans. I love that I can share exclusive content, engage with my audience, and earn money doing what I enjoy.
– Who are your typical customers? Any funny stories?
It’s a mix! Some are fitness enthusiasts looking for workout tips and motivation, while others are drawn to my physique and personality. I get all kinds of messages – from guys wanting advice on how to build muscle to fans simply admiring my size. One of the funniest messages I ever got was from someone who said, “Bro, you’re like a Greek god, but taller!” Another said, “My boyfriend is jealous of you because I talk about your muscles too much!” It’s always entertaining.
– What makes F2F unique compared to other platforms?
The “For You Page” feature is a game changer. Unlike other platforms where you have to rely on followers seeing your content, F2F allows new users to discover me easily. It gives more visibility to creators like me, making it easier to grow an audience and connect with new people. Plus, the freedom to post exclusive content without unnecessary restrictions is a huge plus.
BOLD & UNFILTERED
– Ever thought about the fact that fans might be watching your videos before bed?
I definitely have! And if it helps them relax – or do whatever they do – then I’m happy to contribute to their bedtime routine.
– How do you handle overly personal or intrusive messages? Any limits?
I always expect a certain level of admiration, but respect is key. If someone crosses the line, I simply ignore or block them. But I’m pretty open-minded – everyone has their own preferences.
– Have there been moments where you thought, “This is too much”?
Not yet! I’m always up for pushing limits, but in a way that aligns with my values.
– What’s the craziest request you’ve received?
Someone wanted me to blow up a giant balloon, sit on it naked, and pop it while… well, you can imagine. No comment.
– One million dollars for a video – would you do anything?
One million? Let’s see the cash first, and then we’ll talk!
FUTURE PLANS
– Planning to launch your own merchandise?
Yes! I want to start my own clothing line – gym wear, casual wear, and accessories. Hoodies with “Big Wess – The Giant” would be just the beginning!
– How do you see the future of OnlyFans and F2F?
People will always seek exclusive content, and these platforms will keep evolving. I see them becoming more mainstream and accepted.
– What type of content has the biggest “Wow” effect?
Less clothing – more “Wow.” Works every time.
– Would you offer private training off-camera?
Absolutely, as long as the offer is right!
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